Friday, September 23, 2011
Shocking!!
Once the fog of jet lag lifted in Krakow, we fell in love with that city. Everything was wonderful and interesting and beautiful. The food was delicious, the old buildings were full of character and history and the people seemed friendly. When we got to Warsaw, something changed. Suddenly, Poland seemed full of broken sidewalks and grafitti. The grocery stores were hard to navigate, there was always broken glass in the parks and the people were downright grouchy. Nobody here seemed particularly tolerant of children, especially in groups of more than 2, and I cannot count the amount of times we were publicly shushed (in the bathroom at the mall, on the bus, at the pool...) When you combine those things with the amount of illness we endured, it amounted to some pretty dark days. There were a few times when we (mostly me) considered going home early. Seriously considered it. However, things have really turned around here in the last couple of weeks and we (mostly me) are glad that we stayed. All of those things I mentioned above are still true of Poland, but they no longer bother us so much. Maybe it is because we know our journey is coming to an end, but I think there was also something else going on. I think we suffered from a classic case of culture shock. I was reading about it, and the article I read explained that initially in a new country you go through a honeymoon period (our time in Krakow) and then all of the differences between your home country and the new one really start to drag you down (our initial time in Warsaw) and then you adjust and start to see things more clearly and enjoy yourself again (our last few weeks in Warsaw). Sounds about right to me. How very shocking!
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I do think Krakow is cleaner and prettier. I really loved living there. Although Warsaw is more urban and gritty, I do appreciate that more people seem to speak English here. You know it is very common for the Grandmas to comment about your kids (mainly that they are not dressed warmly enough). We were on the bus with the Hyatts the other day and Abbie and Lizzy were sitting next to eachother giggling and being really loud. The grandma behind them was saying something and I thought for sure she was saying that they were too loud or needed to have hats on or something, but my husband said she was saying, "What merry children. They have the spirit of God about them". So you just never know! I am sorry you suffered so much sickness during your stay. Still, you managed to do so many fun things with your family. I admire you so much for being brave and visiting many places.
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